The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
by Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga · 2013
In a nutshell
Personal-development and philosophy book framed as a dialogue that introduces Adlerian psychology, encouraging readers to take responsibility, overcome fear of judgment, and live according to self-chosen values—useful for startup founders who must make unconventional decisions and handle criticism and risk.
The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
Personal-development and philosophy book framed as a dialogue that introduces Adlerian psychology, encouraging readers to take responsibility, overcome fear of judgment, and live according to self-chosen values—useful for startup founders who must make unconventional decisions and handle criticism and risk.
Reference
The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness — publisher / official page. Summary adapted from the Awesome Startup Books collection.
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