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Negotiation
Getting good deals without damaging relationships.
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Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High
by Kerry Patterson & Joseph Grenny & Ron McMillan et al.
Crucial Conversations equips founders with leadership lessons for mastering high-stakes talks essential for team building, conflict resolution, and investor negotiations. Key principles include creating safety through mutual purpose, using the STATE model for candid dialogue, and deciding on clear action items. Vs High Output Management, it prioritizes dialogue skills and emotional control over operational leverage.
Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In
by Roger Fisher & William Ury & Bruce Patton
The definitive guide to principled negotiation from the Harvard Negotiation Project. This international bestseller with over 15 million copies sold teaches a proven, step-by-step strategy for coming to mutually acceptable agreements in every sort of conflict—from business negotiations to personal disputes.
Founder vs Investor
by Elizabeth Joy Zalman & Jerry Neumann
A candid startup and venture capital book for founders that explains how fundraising really works from seed through IPO, detailing incentives, term sheets, negotiation dynamics, and the often-misunderstood relationship between founders and VCs. Highly relevant for startup founders seeking to understand investors, raise capital intelligently, and navigate the growth journey of a venture-backed company.
Never Split the Difference
by Christopher Voss & Tahl Raz
Negotiation and persuasion play a critical role in startup life—whether raising capital, closing key hires, or landing early customers. In this book, former FBI hostage negotiator Chris Voss translates high-stakes negotiation tactics into actionable techniques for business and everyday situations. For founders, it’s a must-read for learning how to gain leverage, navigate tough conversations, and secure better terms in investor, partner, and sales negotiations.
Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It
by Christopher Voss & Tahl Raz
A bestselling negotiation book by former FBI hostage negotiator Chris Voss that teaches practical, high-stakes negotiation techniques. While not startup-specific, it is widely recommended for founders as a must-read for improving fundraising, sales, hiring, partnerships, and day‑to‑day dealmaking.
Venture Deals: Be Smarter Than Your Lawyer and Venture Capitalist
by Brad Feld & Jason Mendelson
Venture Deals by Brad Feld and Jason Mendelson is a definitive guide to understanding venture capital term sheets, deal structures, and fundraising dynamics. It is essential reading for startup founders who plan to raise venture capital, helping them negotiate better terms and build informed relationships with investors.
Start with No
by Jim Camp
Negotiation book that teaches a contrarian, highly disciplined approach to dealmaking, useful for startup founders negotiating with investors, partners, and early customers.
THE BROKEN RULES OF ENGAGEMENT
by Pinky Thompson
Pinky Thompson challenges conventional business engagement norms, offering founders unconventional rules for authentic relationships and deal-making pivots. Use cases in sales strategy shifts; contrarian interpersonal tactics vs Porter's market models.
Venture Deals
by Brad Feld & Jason Mendelson
Brad Feld and Jason Mendelson demystify the venture capital process, offering insights into securing funding and negotiating deals. This book is crucial for startup founders navigating the complex world of venture capital.
Basic Black
by Cathie Black
Basic Black: The Essential Guide for Getting Ahead at Work (and in Life) by Cathie Black is a leadership and career book drawing on the former Hearst Magazines president’s experience; it offers practical advice on management, negotiation, and navigating corporate growth, which can help startup founders develop leadership and organizational skills.
What They Don't Teach You at Harvard Business School
by Mark H. McCormack
A practical business book offering real-world lessons on sales, negotiation, and relationship management that are invaluable to startup founders.
Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
by Douglas Stone
By Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen of the Harvard Negotiation Project (1999, updated 2023), this book breaks any hard conversation into three underlying layers: what happened, feelings, and identity. It gives founders and managers a framework for raising tough issues without triggering defensiveness.
The Challenger Sale: Taking Control of the Customer Conversation
by Matthew Dixon and Brent Adamson
By Matthew Dixon and Brent Adamson (2011, Portfolio/Penguin), based on research into thousands of sales reps, this book argues the best B2B salespeople don't just build relationships — they teach, tailor, and take control by challenging the customer's thinking.
Bargaining for Advantage: Negotiation Strategies for Reasonable People
by G. Richard Shell
By G. Richard Shell, director of the Wharton Executive Negotiation Workshop (1999, 3rd ed. 2006, Penguin), this book builds a personalized negotiation approach around six foundations, including your own natural style, goals, and leverage, backed by research and historical case studies.
Ask a Manager: How to Navigate Clueless Colleagues, Lunch-Stealing Bosses, and the Rest of Your Life at Work
by Alison Green
By Alison Green, creator of the Ask a Manager website (2018, Ballantine Books), this is a practical script-based guide to handling awkward workplace conversations, from giving feedback to negotiating raises to managing difficult coworkers.
What Every BODY Is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-Reading People
by Joe Navarro
By Joe Navarro, a former FBI counterintelligence agent (2008, HarperCollins), this book teaches how to read body language — comfort and discomfort cues especially — to better understand people in negotiations, interviews, and meetings.
Negotiation Genius: How to Overcome Obstacles and Achieve Brilliant Results at the Bargaining Table and Beyond
by Deepak Malhotra and Max H. Bazerman
By Deepak Malhotra and Max H. Bazerman, Harvard Business School professors (2007, Bantam), this book combines negotiation theory and psychology to give readers concrete tactics for overcoming tricky obstacles like deception, power imbalances, and multi-party deals.