No One Understands You and What to Do About It
by Heidi Grant Halvorson · 2015
In a nutshell
Herminia Ibarra’s book on perception and interpersonal bias explains why others see you differently than you intend and how to manage those gaps. For startup founders, it’s especially useful for improving communication with cofounders, early employees, and investors.
No One Understands You and What to Do About It
Herminia Ibarra’s book on perception and interpersonal bias explains why others see you differently than you intend and how to manage those gaps. For startup founders, it’s especially useful for improving communication with cofounders, early employees, and investors.
Reference
No One Understands You and What to Do About It — publisher / official page. Summary adapted from the Awesome Startup Books collection.
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